Little Miss Sassy Pants

My sweet little girl just turned two years old!  I can’t believe how fast she has grown and how quickly time flies!  She’s learning so much.  She can sing & count, she knows a couple of colors, and she remembers just about everything.  I wish I had a memory like hers!

Of course with the positive things she learns also comes a few negative.  Over the course of these past two years, she’s learned to back talk.  I’ll be honest.  Sometimes I have to leave the room so she doesn’t see me laugh!  I know, I know!  I shouldn’t laugh when she misbehaves, but sometimes I just can’t help it! 

I always try to leave the room, but I don’t always succeed.  What is cute while she’s two will not be so cute when she’s twelve!  Sure, we have a long ten years ahead of us, but wait!  As quickly as these first two years have flown, ten years will be gone faster than I wish to imagine.  I don’t want to give her the false impression that a sassy mouth is ok!

But we adults give that impression more than we care to admit.  How many times have I laughed at her without making it out of the room or turning my head?  I can tell you I’ve done it too many times!  And look at the clothes in the store.  They are labeled in big bold letters; Princess, Spoiled Brat, Bossy, Glamour Girl, Drama Queen, and, yes, even Sassy.  Are they cute?  Maybe.  But our children often become what we tell them they are.  Tell a child she’s smart, and she’ll often turn out that way.  Tell her she’s lazy, and chances are she’ll perform the part.

We’ve been very blessed with clothes since our Little Sweetie was born.  We have not had to buy many clothes for her because several friends have given us so much!  One item we received was a precious overall dress with cute little patches sewn all over it.  I loved the dress, but one of the patches bothered me.  It said Sassy.  So here I am dealing with a “mouthy” toddler, and I have a dress that labels her exactly as she is!  Sure it’s meant to be harmless and cute, but in the middle of a fit, Momma doesn’t think her sassiness is so cute!  Well…most of the time anyway!

So I followed my convictions and removed the patch.  It was such an easy fix!  I left the other patches, and we wear the dress often.  It looks so adorable on my Little Sweetie!  Did I go to extremes?  Maybe, according to some.  But it was more than just a cute little patch on the dress.  My job is to mold my child into what God wants her to be.  I just didn’t feel right about telling her one thing and showing her something different, and that’s exactly what I felt like I would do if I left the patch.  (For the record, even when she was tiny I tried to be careful which bibs I picked because many of them have the same issues.)

“Even a child is known by his doings, whether his work be pure, and whether it be right.”

Proverbs 20:11

Now I do agree that it’s not just the clothes they wear, and I’m not here to tell you that if your child wears a shirt that says Spoiled Brat that she really will become one.  It’s also what we teach at home and instill in their hearts.  What I’m saying is that my conviction for my child is to be careful that I don’t set a double standard.  I don’t want to tell her that back talking or sassing Daddy & Momma is wrong and then let her wear a dress that says Sassy across the front.

Am I looking at your children and judging you for letting them wear clothes with those sayings?  Absolutely not.  You are the authority in your home.  Not me.  I’m simply laying out my convictions and giving you food for thought.  Pray about it and let the Lord guide you.  You know He will!

“Behold, God exalteth by His Power:  who teacheth like him?”

Job 36:22

Gambling and Drinking

This is a study that Billy did on gambling and drinking.  He asked me to type it up for him, so I thought I’d post it for you to enjoy! 

Gambling

The definition of covet is to lust after worldly things.  A man gambles because of his lust for money.  This makes gambling a sin.  Here are a few verses that tie into lust.  Maybe this will be a help to all who read it. 

God wants us to rely on Him for all our provisions.

“For the love of money is the root of all evil:  which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.”  1 Timothy 6:10

“And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness:  for a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of things which he possesseth.”  Luke 12:15

“(1) Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; (2) And walk in love, as

 Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to god for a sweetsmelling savour.  (3)But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;”  Ephesians 5:1-3

“No servant can serve two masters:  for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other.  ye cannot serve God and mammon.”  Luke 16:13

“But seek ye first the Kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things

shall be added unto you.”  Matthew 6:33

Drinking:

“Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging:  and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise.”  Proverbs 20:1

To understand the Bible, men have to realize that it was written in Jewish custom.  Their customs are not the same as ours.  God blessed them with wine that truly was the fruit of the vine, nothing more.  But since they didn’t have a way to keep it cool and to keep it from spoiling, God gave them directions on how to preserve it through fermentation.  However, it is not the same process as today’s process. 

God also gave them strict rules on this process and how to test it.  If it was too strong, they were not allowed to drink it.  It was thrown out because God said it became a different spirit.  In fact, it became an evil spirit.  To understand this, people need to understand the spirits.  God did not intend for people to drink the wine to get drunk. 

Beer on the other hand is made in such a way that when it is put into the bottle, it has the ingredients mixed together that, according to Jewish custom, it already has an evil spirit and considered a hard drink because of the volume of alcohol.  The Bible is very clear about strong drinks.  When you take into account Jewish customs, the spirits, and God’s Word, drinking even just one beer in fact is a sin.  It was made for the intent of getting drunk.

It has already helped some since this study began to see the importance of putting verses in proper context.

“Whoredom and wine and new wine take away the heart.”  Hosea 4:11

“(22) Woe unto them that are might to drink wine, and men of strength to mingle strong drink: 

(23) Which justify the wicked for reward, and take away the

righteousness of the righteous from him!”  Isaiah 5:22-23

“They shall not drink wine with a song; strong drink shall be bitter to them that drink it.” 

Isaiah 24:9

“For they eat the bread of wickedness, and drink the wine of violence.”  Proverbs 4:17

When someone drinks or gambles, it gives the impression to people who don’t know you that you are a lost sinner.  On the flip side, if you are a saved child of God and are seen drinking and gambling, no one can tell if you are a child of darkness or a child of Light.  Now you have to worry about messing up your testimony.  That in itself would be a sin.

This study was done out of Love and not to condemn anyone.  That is reserved for Almighty God. 

His Name First: A Lesson from Grandpa

Many years ago while in elementary, I vaguely remembered writing a report about my family…or something along those lines.   I’m not sure if the assignment was to tell about my family, or if it was an autobiography.  That was too long ago!

What I do remember about the report was having my Grandpa Hannah read it.  He was always studying writing and grammar, so I thought he would be a good one to help me proofread.

Like I said, I don’t remember much about what was in the report, and I don’t even remember if I ever showed my report to anyone else in my family.  But there is one piece of advice I will always remember.  I had written about my parents.  In my report I had written about Mom, and then I had written about Dad.”  Grandpa said he enjoyed reading my report, but I needed to fix one thing:  I needed to put Dad's information first, and then Mom's.  I remember thinking, “I don’t think it’s that big of a deal, but if Grandpa says it is, it must be.”  So, I changed it. 

"For Adam was first formed, then Eve"  1 Timothy 2:14

Before you judge my grandpa as being too conservative and overbearing, I should tell you that I’ve not yet met a finer example of what a Christian man should be (although Billy’s, my husband, is a tie!).  He ran his household and ran it well.  He loved Granny with his whole heart.  He made sure that her needs were met and that she was happy, but it was obvious that he was head of the home (and that in itself made her happy!).  As I look back on it, his advice was right on the mark!  The husband is the head of the home!  The woman is to work and strive to make her husband look good; to put him first! 

"Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land."  Proverbs 31:23

Submitting to the husband is lost in today’s society, but I have always remembered his advice.  I try to make a conscious effort to put the man’s name first when I send out cards or letters, and I always sign Billy’s name first when I send something from us.  I thought no one noticed or thought about this simple act anymore, but in our ladies meeting the other night, someone mentioned the fact that the husband’s name should be first!  I was so excited to share my story and pass along what Grandpa taught me all those years ago!

Putting your husband’s name before yours may not seem like much, but if you put his name first in speaking and writing, you’re more likely to put his needs above yours.  It’s just another way to use your meek, gentle spirit as God intended!  Remember the old saying:  JOY = Jesus, Others, You.

Why The Old Path?

Today I just wanted to say a little about the title of the blog.  Why “A Journey on the Old Path”?  The main answer: 

“For I Am the Lord, I change not.”  Malachi 3:6

If God doesn’t change, why do we?  Why do we assume that His Word was written for people thousands of years ago?  Who do we think we are to try to modernize The God of Heaven? 

First, it is my desire to be the woman that God has called me to be.  To love my husband with all of my heart, and to serve him to the best of my ability.  You read it right the first time!  To serve him!  God created wives for husbands!  Not the other way around!  This is an old fashioned way of thinking, but it is what is right and honorable in the sight of God!  Thus, The Old Path!

Aside from my desire to be a helper fit for my husband, it is also our desire as a family to raise our children to appreciate the simple life.  This includes everything from the way that we serve the Lord to the food that we put in our mouths.  We’ve even added chickens to our 1 ½ acre this spring!  We’re hoping to raise our own eggs!  Mmmm, much more tasty than supermarket eggs!

So  you can see where our journey as a family is headed.  Back to the Old Path.  We’re not perfect, and we never will be!  It is only by God’s grace that we will continue to grow in the Knowledge of Him!

The Journey Begins

First let me say, WOW!  I’ve had this desire for so long to be able to “do” something with the Internet.  I’ve dabbled a tiny bit in web design, kept in touch on Facebook, created pages for my classroom and other organizations, but still the desire to do something more remains.  And so, my blogging journey begins today!

At one point I wanted to create my own web page, but I wasn’t sure why or what I wanted to put on it.  Then I discovered blogging.  At first reading blogs was something that I did only when I happened upon them in search of specific information.  Then I noticed that blogs are basically online journals that people share.  That’s when it hit me.  This longing that I’ve had now has a purpose; to share what God has done for me and where He’s leading me.

I hope you’re still hanging on.  Opening the pages of my heart is like telling a story in which all of the events happen at once!  At the same time that my hobby and interest in online tools was growing, my heart was growing as well.  I ADORE my husband!  God has blessed me with a Godly man!  With that said, my heart aches for those couples who don’t adore one another as we do.  Sometimes I want to grab women and say, “Look what you’re doing to your husband!  He’s trying to be the Spiritual Leader, and you’re pushing him away!  Do you really expect him to still be with you in 10 years?”  Sometimes I feel so helpless!  I want to help them, but they must first have the desire to want to change.

Now, are you putting all of this together yet?  I love my husband and want to share what I’ve learned as a wife, mother, and even school teacher.  I have a growing interest in the wonderful World Wide Web.  So…I want to blog my journey as the helper to my husband that God has called me to be. 

As for now, I have no idea which direction this blog will take.  I do have some goals in mind, but I don’t know if each topic will be included on this blog, or if each topic will be on separate blogs.  In reality, all of the topics go together.  My role as my husband’s helper includes mothering his children, preparing our household, and keeping our household healthy and safe. 

I pray that you continue to read as this blog grows.  If I author separate blogs, I will try to link those to this one.  My prayer is that, no matter who reads this, it will help you grow in the Lord!